In love, it's good to listen to friends advices and judgment for they fill in the blindness we refuse to see. It's good to decide when all ideas come in hand for it leads us to right decisions, but you know what? It's still best to listen, follow and decide with your own heart and judgment. Keep this mind... the love of two individuals can only be felt by the heart that beats, not the eyes of others... so when loving, learn to listen but decide on your own... after all, you know what can make you happy.